Finding your Family Graves is
more then documenting your family line. Seeing the pictures also is very warm feeling.
Knowing that is where your roots are and your family walked on these grounds. Some of the
graveyards have been not taken care of properly. Hopefully the family will care enough. to
make their families resting place a place where the family can be proud. There is alot of
people trying, to clean the graveyards. Let's try to help them.
The closer to the church wall you were
buried the worst a person you were. These were reserved for the unfit or a person who took
there on live.. As the saying goes "bury you were the sun doesn't shine", meant
that you were bury by the wall that did not have sun or only shade. and it meant you were
not a nice person. The direction your body faced counted. Buried face up is good, face
down not good. Buried with feet face south or north counted also..
Different Designs on Tomestones give
you clues and what is allow and not allow depending on your culture or religious believes.
Most wakes were held in the house and each
culture had a different of what the wake should be.
Irish believe the louder the crying the
better changes of getting to heaven. They would actually have people to just cry over the
body.They were called wailers....
The Welsh did not agree with this or other
cultures.
There was always someone with the body at
all times. Just in case the person would come alive again. Which did happen at this time,
many were buried alive not knowing they didn't die but just were in coma or sleeping
soundly.
Burials were written up in the paper and if
you were of any wealth, the coffin was written about as a status to you.
Example a beautiful Oak Coffin...Many died
without a proper burial lack of money. poor people who could not afford a plot or stone.
Many had just a rock to mark there spot...or a wooden cross made of branches.
There was also a custom, of taking a picture of the deceased and hanging it in your Parlor
for a year.